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Generation Z: Desperate for Rules

Betsy VanDenBerghe

I recently attended a meeting that many would consider anachronistic: Standards Night, an annual gathering for Mormon youth and their parents encouraging chaste and porn-free living. Some call this...

Suzuki Method Uberparenting

Betsy VanDenBerghe

My oldest child started piano lessons back in the nineties, due to somewhat base parental motives. A friend who volunteered in prisons had told me that a common denominator...

Unsolicited Advice On How To Find A Mate

Betsy VanDenBerghe

In one of his lesser known comedies, playwright Neil Simon depicts the irrationality of undiluted physical attraction through the love-struck yearnings of Norman. A ’60s radical, second in his...

“Knot Yet”: Marriage and Other Choices

Betsy VanDenBerghe

In the final scene of A&E’s Pride and Prejudice the camera pans a double wedding tableau: Elizabeth and Darcy and Jane and Bingley, both couples surrounded by family and...

Evangelicals vs. Mormons: Blessed Are the Peacemakers

Betsy VanDenBerghe

We refer to it in our family as “the clown episode.” Over a dozen years ago our family visited a collection of rare Bibles open to the public as...

The Unacceptable Alternative Lifestyle

Betsy VanDenBerghe

They occasionally populate New Yorker stories—characters on the peripheries of the narrator’s life, somehow only half human, almost surreal, because they’re single, celibate, and plan to stay that way...

Cohabitation, Marriage, and Brangelina

Betsy VanDenBerghe

While single and working in the Boston area during the 1980s, I observed the cohabitation phenomenon up close. My friends moved in with guys anticipating stability along with the...

Why Bigger Might Be Easier

Betsy VanDenBerghe

In the National Marriage Project’s exhaustive 2011 “State of Our Unions” report, a sidebar among the analyses and graphs draws attention to a subset social scientists tend to ignore...