Saturday night my wife and I went to the symphony. One of the pieces we heard was Symphony no. 4 by Sergei Prokofiev. In the program notes, one of the things we were informed about this symphony was that it borrowed heavily from an earlier work, which was a ballet entitled The Prodigal Son. Furthermore we were informed that the third movement borrowed from a section of the ballet which introduced/added (for sex appeal) a seductive dance by a female dancer/love interest. This element was apparently added to the story to increase popularity. So when the the third movement came around, I was expecting seductive or melodic patterns that would fit a seductive dance. Yet I got a surprise. The third movement to my ears was quirky humorous and, well, goofy. To my minds eye, the exotic dance would feature a grinning minx with strident makeup, mismatched pigtails, a flouncy dress, and a puckish grin and attitude.
Here’s my point. While this is on occasion what I might find captivating and perhaps seductive … I think of myself unusual in this regard. I’ll freely admit, for example, in the Magic Flute, I’m more interested in the Popageno/Popagena love story than Tamino/Pamina story. What do you think of humor and other puckish elements as part of seduction or romance?

March 31st, 2010 | 11:40 am | #1
For some of us, humor is about our only hope.
March 31st, 2010 | 3:28 pm | #2
It’s certainly key in my own romance! I knew she was the girl for me when I felt as comfortable being silly around her as I do around my family. And it was confirmed when I realized that I found her as funny as she found me.
March 31st, 2010 | 3:52 pm | #3
I would think that humour and other puckish elements are far closer to real life than what we often seen portrayed.
The seductress gets a night. The puckish one gets a husband.
March 31st, 2010 | 4:40 pm | #4
“And it was confirmed when I realized that I found her as funny as she found me”
True. Women should be told this by their mothers: A man finds it immensely attractive when a woman thinks he is funny. (Or pretends to.)
March 31st, 2010 | 7:10 pm | #5
The readers of Evangel aren’t David DeAngelo fans. That shouldn’t be a surprise.
Dad always said he fell in love with Mom because “She laughed at all my jokes.”
April 2nd, 2010 | 12:50 pm | #6
Papageno & Papagena epitomize grace, Pamina and Tamino, works.
Links
Blogs
Find Us
Contact